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It does sometimes take a bit of effort to find your niche. My advice, in order:
1. Ask sisters to do things with you. Find something you have in common, however small, and go from there. I met my best friend in my pledge class because we both loved to eat sushi and would always call each other if we needed a sushi buddy!
2. Tell your Big how you feel. It is really her job to a) spend time with you, and b) help you find other friends in the sorority to spend time with. Maybe she needs a wake-up call.
3. Tell the people in charge how you feel. For example, your Pledge Mom/New Member Educator (whether you are a pledge anymore or not), the President, another Exec member or advisor, or even your house mom.
Your sorority does not want to lose you as a member. Do your best to make new friends, but if you are still struggling, seek assistance. Without a doubt, someone will take you under her wing and help you.
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