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Originally Posted by RedefinedDiva
1. Is there such a thing as a necessary beat down?
2. Who informed you that you would be receiving a "beat down" at any time?
3. When did the terms "pledge" and "haze" become interchangeable?
4. If you are CERTAIN that Sorority #2 won't have a problem, then why are you asking US for advice? It seems that you have your answer already.
5. Why does it matter that your supervisor would be disappointed?
6. Why would you defer seeking membership based on others?
And there you have it, folks! The coup de grace!
Though there's SO much more, I'll leave my comments there.
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1&2. Excuse me for my poor storytelling skills but its known on campus that sorority #1 hazes. At the time I didn't know about this because I am a transfer student.
3.Also I know the difference between hazing and pledging but its the way that the president said it and the attitude that she had.
4. I am asking for others opinions to see if anyone can relate to this same situation. I would like someone elses perspective. It could have happen to someone on here or maybe someone has an opinion on if a potential pledgee went through the same.
5. Don't you think that if someone has their heart set on you joining their organization that there would be conflict if you didn't? We work together on a daily basis and I don't think she is going to take it lightly that I've changed my mind.
6. Self-explanatory. I don't want there to be any drama involving me on-campus. I'm afraid that sorority #1 may not look at me the same, may try and slander me, & etc.
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