NotSoRetro's Deferred Recruitment at a Private School

[NotSoRetro]

You know she never did, because I think she knew why I did it. It's not something I ever really talked about with any of my sisters after recruitment.

Interestingly enough, the next year after I went through they began to implement RFM and those late cuts (like what I experienced) were pushed to the first and second nights. I think if I had gone through later, I may not have had the opportunity to release Miami or get so caught up in a chapter's status.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by NotSoRetro

You know she never did, because I think she knew why I did it. It's not something I ever really talked about with any of my sisters after recruitment.

Interestingly enough, the next year after I went through they began to implement RFM and those late cuts (like what I experienced) were pushed to the first and second nights. I think if I had gone through later, I may not have had the opportunity to release Miami or get so caught up in a chapter's status.

I'm sure your 18 year old self would have been able to handle that better as well. I think RFM is a kind way to release women. You don't get them in the situation you found yourself in. I guess Lauren figured that confronting you would have been counter productive. I bet she was a good Big Sis.

[KSUViolet06]

I really enjoyed your story and I hope that PNMs read this and see just how important it is to keep an open mind.

Note to PNMs reading:

Keep an open mind, because you just never know. The place you say you "couldn't see yourself" could end up being the place with the friends that you will look back and wonder how you ever lived without.