Not getting along with a sister- help!!

[KSUViolet06]

It's hard to give advice on these kinds of issues because we're only getting one side of the story.

Welcome to Greek Life. You are not going to get along perfectly with every girl in the chapter. Girls are still girls whether they're your sisters or not and there is bound to be some sort of drama at different times.

You don't have to love this girl just because you're in the same sorority. If someone is determined to dislike you, just interact with her as needed and leave it at that.

No one can make you feel the way you're feeling without your consent. If you're upset, you're the one with the problem.

You can't change the way she feels or how she behaves, but you can definitely change the way you feel and the way you think about her.

Ask yourself, is she really worth it?

[crissy1]

Originally Posted by OTW

No one can make you feel the way you're feeling without your consent. If you're upset, you're the one with the problem.

You can't change the way she feels or how she behaves, but you can definitely change the way you feel and the way you think about her.

Ask yourself, is she really worth it?

I guess that's really what I was asking- how do I learn to ignore it, or rise above it? I know I can't change her, but I'm having a hard time ignoring it myself.