Could it be possible too that the chapter invited the number they were allowed but then many of those women ended up at other preference parties? Maybe they realized they would not fill quota and are upset with the number of women who chose to return for pref so they are actively seeking out the other PNMs they liked but may have released in favor for women who ranked other chapters higher or dropped out before pref when they saw their schedule.
Actually, they might not have even thought to look at the screen with the list of girls who were completely released until after they saw their party list (which usually goes out a couple of hours before parties start).
We were always given the list of released PNMs along with our party lists.
We were always given the list of released PNMs along with our party lists.
I see. That is very different from what I have seen. It really is interesting how the procedures (even something as simple as that) can vary from campus to campus!