I may be the sole person that feels this way, but I do not feel any anger/ill will towards those parents that use the Safe Habor options. In most cases, it's parents who are "at the end of their rope" and just don't know what else to do. HOPEFULLY they directed to the proper community resources that offer assistance to get them over this hump or to AT LEAST teach them how to cope with a pre-teen/teen.
Who I don't feel sorry for are those parents that don't give a squat about their kids and instead of at least putting them into the care of the state/foster family, they do inhumane things to their children such as abuse them, kill them, starve them, or some other form of sadistic treatment.
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"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is to try to please everyone."
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