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It seems as though you are doing the right thing in trying to include others and deflecting the extra attention. I feel like alot of new members would just be like "oh wow I'm so cool everybody loves me" and the fact that you are concerned shows maturity.
Honestly, I don't know how long it has been since you got a bid, but generally such "fuss" over new girls dies down after a few weeks (at least in my experience). By next semester, I'm willing to bet that they will have moved on and gotten over it.
If the attention really starts to bother you, you can talk to your New Member Educator and let her know. She can probably bring this behavior to the attention of the active sisters and let them know that it's not appropriate.
All you can do is be an active and contributing member, and try to hang out with everyone (not just your class OR the seniors). Yes, your class is important, but it's important to make a variety of friends within your sorority. You can't really control whether someone resents you or not for it.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 08-28-2008 at 01:41 AM.
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