It seems the more insecure girls are the ones overly concerned with being in the "most popular" or " top tier" sororority. The more confident and mature girls realize sisterhood is what it is all about and it can be found in any of the sororities if you are not focused on all the superficial things.
Still having trouble tracking down an Alpha Phi rec for Alabama.The suggestion of Rho Chi was made--but if you didn't go through formal rush that is not an option. The Ala. Alum chapter made the sugggestion of Rho Chi.