How soon after breaking up?

[LttleMsPrEp]

I agree with all the posts on this thread, I think that as long as you're mentally broken up from your ex it's okay to date anytime.

I was in a serious relationship for about 2 years and then we broke up to "experiment" but 2 years later he and I remained really good friends but we never mentally broke up from each other so it made it practically impossible to date anyone else. Finally i mentally broke up with him and I'm able to date without feeling guilty.

I say go for it, as long as you're over him and ready to move on

[LightBulb]

Wow, I really appreciate all the perspectives y'all threw out there. Thanks so much for your honesty.

And in response to your question of dating vs. relationship, I don't really know yet. I haven't been on any dates yet. I would probably just start dating first, but it may lead to a relationship at some point. Then again, it might be fun to stay single for a little while. We'll see.

[AKA_Monet]

Since you aren't married, I think it only matters when there is enough time for you... Even if you were married and got legally divorced, it all matters when you think you are ready to move forward in your life.

That's my 1908 cents worth today...