Stupid boy

[James]

Hmm . .

1st there is some excellent advice here. If you are unhappy you don't need to stay. And sometimes it doesn't matter whether its your fault or his.

Also, a big flag is the small time you have been involved. You are only 2 months into the relationship. This is still usually the "honeymoon" period. Having problems already is a bad sign for both of you. I would be telling him to bail, if I were his friend.

Usually, if a guy desn't want to hear it from you, it means that he normally perceives your emotional discussions as both bitter and attacking. Two things that are guarenteed to make him feel defensive and angry.

Also, it usually means that he regards these discussions or the "attitudes" leading to discussions as way too frequent for his comfort.

Your girlfriend did you no service by demanding he kiss you, unless he is completely stupid he could probably feel the tension, and what self-respecting man would just obey that way? espeially a command given to him with attitude?

As far as his behaviors go, if you were best friends, you knew the way he was before you started!!!

Anyway, good luck.