I honestly cannot answer some of your questions, but I would advise against wearing "distressed" anything at any point. You may have bought them with frayed edges, but they may present the image that you cannot afford decent clothes. And although we all claim it shouldent matter, it does, and you need to present the image that even if you don't have money to toss around, you consider Rush important enough to dress well.
As for bringing stuff for overnight, as long as you get a shower and use antiperspirant the day before, I doubt your clothes will be in bad shape if you wear the same outfit two days running, especially if you only change into sorority clothes the night before. When I was in the equivalent of JROTC, I went 2 weeks without a change of kit and although we all stank, nobody complained.
Thomas
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