A lady drinks Brandy Alexanders and Grasshoppers - I learned this from my own mother (OK, I was an expensive date back in college or so my first Greek boyfriend must have thought when he complained about how much the drink mix cost). I did have to tell one bartender what was in a Grasshopper, though.
Otherwise, Bloody Marys (not hot) and Mimosas (mornings and early afternoons). I like Australian wines (Shiraz). No beers unless I'm in Milwaukee - then its wierd to have anything else. Shots? I haven't done one since I almost threw up downing one & everybody that I was with from work laughed, except for vodka/jello shots, again work-inspired.