lonely and depressed...

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

that sucks, you should find a guy that would watch planets with you

I'm a member of an astronomy and physics club, so I've actually met guys that are into astronomy like me, but all of them were fugly, and a few of them were fubar. The guy I'm seeing now is a cutie but wouldn't know a planet unless it appeared on his XBox.

So, I guess I could have one or the other. I could have a Mr. Hottie who probably thinks the Kuiper Belt is a belt to wear around his waist, or a Mr. Fubar who can tell me that the Kuiper Belt stretches from the edge of Neptune's orbit to about 7 billion miles from the Sun. Or a Mr. Fugly who can debate with me about why Pluto should or should not be one of the nine planets in our solar system.

Hmmm....I'll take Mr. Hottie.

ETA: He did watch "Mission to Mars" with me though.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I'm a member of an astronomy and physics club, so I've actually met guys that are into astronomy like me, but all of them were fugly, and a few of them were fubar. The guy I'm seeing now is a cutie but wouldn't know a planet unless it appeared on his XBox.

So, I guess I could have one or the other. I could have a Mr. Hottie who probably thinks the Kuiper Belt is a belt to wear around his waste, or a Mr. Fubar who can tell me that the Kuiper Belt stretches from the edge of Neptune's orbit to about 7 billion miles from the Sun. Or a Mr. Fugly who can debate with me about why Pluto should or should not be one of the nine planets in our solar system.

Hmmm....I'll take Mr. Hottie.

ETA: He did watch "Mission to Mars" with me though.

point is: he's trying....go with the guy that is make the effort, because most people don't

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

point is: he's trying....go with the guy that is make the effort, because most people don't

Yep. For sure.

I just realized I used the wrong "waste"(I had to go back to edit it) in my post. lol I meant "waist". I hope that wasn't a subconscious slip as in he's a "waste" of my time. lol lol

I'm kidding.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I'm a member of an astronomy and physics club, so I've actually met guys that are into astronomy like me, but all of them were fugly, and a few of them were fubar. The guy I'm seeing now is a cutie but wouldn't know a planet unless it appeared on his XBox.

So, I guess I could have one or the other. I could have a Mr. Hottie who probably thinks the Kuiper Belt is a belt to wear around his waste, or a Mr. Fubar who can tell me that the Kuiper Belt stretches from the edge of Neptune's orbit to about 7 billion miles from the Sun. Or a Mr. Fugly who can debate with me about why Pluto should or should not be one of the nine planets in our solar system.

Hmmm....I'll take Mr. Hottie.

ETA: He did watch "Mission to Mars" with me though.

Oh Cheerful... What am I going to do with you...

Some Fugly can be cleaned up, well... If they are fugly on the outside, what are they like on the inside? If they are handsome on the inside, then the fugliness can be cleaned up unless we are talking total birth defects with 12 fingers on one hand et al...

Mr. Hottie could be an asshat on the inside and would that be worth your beautiful intelligent mind? ESPECIALLY when you are keeping both your outsides and insides clean and presentable...

Now if dude is FUBAR'ed, and you are not a plastic surgeon or he is not studying to be one, then welp--you can think like my folks did, "if you marry a frog, you'll have tadpoles"... But sometimes you kiss a frog and he turns into a prince!!! Maybe a frog prince...

And getting some guys, especially the fugly one's to clean up, is not that hard if you appeal to their vanity and make it a challenge. Like, take for instance, craters on the face, it's usually a combination of issues, but most likely, folliculitis and using poor shaving technique--i.e. dull razors or not sealing that pore. There are other things like what they eat, but for now, just say it's those two things... Get a men's regimen--an the "beauty stores do not have a good men's line" and sometimes its proactiv--personally, I like Mary Kay products and get that stuff cleaned out!!!

If it's jumbled up teeth, well, take him to an orthodontist!!! If it's decaying teeth, he needs to see a dentist...

If it's jumbled up toes--hammertoes, etc. get him a spa pedicure.

And don't be mean about it, just use your wiles of persuasion... LOL...

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Oh Cheerful... What am I going to do with you...

Some Fugly can be cleaned up, well... If they are fugly on the outside, what are they like on the inside? If they are handsome on the inside, then the fugliness can be cleaned up unless we are talking total birth defects with 12 fingers on one hand et al...

Mr. Hottie could be an asshat on the inside and would that be worth your beautiful intelligent mind? ESPECIALLY when you are keeping both your outsides and insides clean and presentable...

Now if dude is FUBAR'ed, and you are not a plastic surgeon or he is not studying to be one, then welp--you can think like my folks did, "if you marry a frog, you'll have tadpoles"... But sometimes you kiss a frog and he turns into a prince!!! Maybe a frog prince...

And getting some guys, especially the fugly one's to clean up, is not that hard if you appeal to their vanity and make it a challenge. Like, take for instance, craters on the face, it's usually a combination of issues, but most likely, folliculitis and using poor shaving technique--i.e. dull razors or not sealing that pore. There are other things like what they eat, but for now, just say it's those two things... Get a men's regimen--an the "beauty stores do not have a good men's line" and sometimes its proactiv--personally, I like Mary Kay products and get that stuff cleaned out!!!

If it's jumbled up teeth, well, take him to an orthodontist!!! If it's decaying teeth, he needs to see a dentist...

If it's jumbled up toes--hammertoes, etc. get him a spa pedicure.

And don't be mean about it, just use your wiles of persuasion... LOL...

lol lol lol My God this post is hilarious. Well, yes, a guy can be fugly on the outside and have a wonderful personalitly, but I just wouldn't be able to get excited over a guy like that. 12 fingers?? lol lol. I do think it's possible to regenerate body parts, by way of turning skin cells back into an embryonic state, but with normal numbers though. Not to regenerate 12 fingers. lol.

Well, Mr. Hottie possesses both. He's a cutie on the outside and a sweetie on the inside. What more could a girl ask for?

Awww thanks for the compliment AKA Monet. I wouldn't really say I'm that intelligent, it's just that I think we all have a lot of knowledge about the things we love. But yes I do try to keep myself clean and presentable and would want him to do the same.

lol lol lol @ the last part of your post. Yes, I've gone out with guys who had asteroid faces, but it never grew into anything more, because I wasn't physically attracted to them. Guys seem to be physically attracted to me, it's just my conversation that drives them away. I guess they think I talk too much. So I guess I'll keep the one I have. He likes talking to me.

[AKA_Monet]

So I am wondering, do guys still approach women these days? No, I am not talking about "hollaring at a playa" -- like the little garbage cleaner boy hooped and "heyed" me in the parking lot while I was trying to go to work...

Yeah, I am talking about when you are standing in line at the grocery store in flip flops and bummy clothes as all get out and then the finest human male specimen on the planet attempts an articulate conversation with just Y-O-U!!!

Has that happened to anyone and if so, I want details!!!

It's happened to me twice in my dating life and maybe once in my married life... Interesting how the boys do notice the ring finger on the left hand these days... And the irony is that I could be dressed up as all get out with my hair and nails done and all the azzhats come out, and then I get treated like dirt, especially when I am walking out with an extremely pricey item--like Máximo Extra Añejo... LOL...