Would you marry someone in the military?

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Originally Posted by amanda6035

And for those who keep saying "hot in uniform" comments.....um, there are some pretty ugly dudes in the military. Taken em out of uniform and see them in normal every day streetwear and they arent that hot. Uniforms are hot simply because they are uniforms.

you aint never LIED! its Fleet Week here and SATC LIED hard... none of them men are hot. i wouldnt take nunnanem home for a quick romp.

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

Maybe we should turn it around. A military man would never marry ME. I'm too outspoken about decreasing the defense budget and diverting it to Education and Health Care. I also think we should have been out of Iraq by now. That said, my views start too many arguments of which I'm not willing to compromise.

My very good friend married a man in the air force. Had he not left the service, they would have been divorced. Desert Storm (during and after), created a huge strain on their marriage. A couple of times he has mentioned reenlisting, and she puts the Yellow Pages on the kitchen table, opened to "Divorce Attorneys"

sounds like my parents' marriage (and eventual divorce). left for Desert Storm in 91 (to Germany) and came back in 93 (the years may be inaccurate, but it was around that time, early 90s). they filed for divorce as soon as we got back in the states.