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Originally Posted by gee_ess
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Also, you might get the women who write your recs/letters to include your shyness, etc in their introduction of you. It is nice to have a "heads up" about a girl who may come across as unfriendly and is really just very shy.
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definately have your rec. writers do this. how much info. they share is up to you. if you were close to any of the girls in the sororities on your campus, and kept regularly in touch with them, you could mention your "breakthru" and how you are so much happier and are working to be more outgoing and friendly, etc. but it sounds like that won't work here.
i think that for you to have the best rush results possible, somehow the information needs to be revealed to the girls you know that you were not being aloof, standoffish or snobby by choice-that this is a disorder that you are working to overcome.
please seek medical help. there are so many ways you can be helped to cope with your disorder.
best wishes for your good health and for success with rush.
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