@Ronnie, I am warning you this one time... You DO NOT call ANY WOMAN out her name here on GC, especially on the AKA Ave. We will take punitive actions if you continue your actions. Use a different word or change your conceptual understanding, I would prefer you to use a male GC mentor--DeltaAlum or Prettyboy who comes to mind right now...
@Preciousjeni
@Cheerful--sweetheart, you need to read some more books on why it hurts Black women so painfully when we see Black men dating women of different ethnic groups. One book I suggest is "When and Where I Enter" by Paula Giddings.
@lovehaiku84--the actual pangs I have seen is through my brother and his dating, baby's choices... Aside from the fact that I think NO woman should date my brother until he gets himself mentally healthy, what he says and does to the women in his life is death defying. Both of "his women" are caucasian. I don't know many white women who would tolerate what my brother is doing without putting his ass in jail, but nonetheless, he must be enamoring these women with his magic stick because I really don't see what woman would find him that enthralling.
What he does to the woman though is put her in hostile situations in front of other powerhouse Black women who are already distrustful. The girl invariably does a faux pas, and the sistahs are ready to attack... But because we like to think we are "open minded", we let stupidity slide--pretty much like "Roscoe Jenkins". Eventually we try to accept the situation--of course we cannot change it. But it still leaves Black women wondering, "what does she got, that I ain't got?" What we get to is "maybe she licked his azz right..."
even though that probably is not it.
In my situation, my brother's latest Jerry Springer story, the baby's mama is not eating properly--not enough water, healthy food, etc. As such, she cannot express enough breast milk and therefore my 4 month old suffers and it is reflected by her heavy outbursts of crying--an American Idol in the making, I guess? But, I mean, I am sorry, no one can be that dumb about food intake and breast milk production... Would a sistah do that? Probably, but if MIL says eat XYZ or else... Most women would do it... Not be resistant like my brother's baby's mama...
There are other issues that I have noticed which are just cultural differences. And it can be picked up over
time--which is what it takes...
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