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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
Daemon, when you say like attracts like, my question is why? What causes the attraction? 
I think for men it's visual, but for women it's for more reasons than that. At least it is for me. I mean, at 1st sight of course that would drive me to want to know more about him, but I wouldn't have sex with him just based appearance alone.
I think there is some truth to what you said about sex for some women. I think it's all about certain personality criteria though. Women are attracted to the tribal leader, someone who exhibits those characteristics of status. I do think that a lot of women that do the speed dating thing pretty much have made their minds up about a guy within 30 seconds of meeting him. For me and for some women, a simple smile can sometimes be enough to attract me to a guy. |
CG...luv ya like a play cousin...but that last part is bullcrap
....nah just playing but really we are talking about the base level of sex.....before the convo really starts
See....some women have been conditioned to repress that id which gives them that urge to jump the guy's bones...LOL.
Thus, they 'want to get to know us better...'
I mean come on...you see 3 guys across the room...which one is gonna stand out?
Remember this too, women tend (not all let me say that now!!) to be more emotional than men when it comes to sex.
Yes, men may want more than just visual...but we are simply isolating one thing...sex...physical urges...putting everything else aside, we have to like what what we SEE first and then it goes from there.
What causes attraction...I dunno...I have an abstract theory that geometry has a role in it...hehehe!
Well anyway on an offside, has anyone ever noticed the dating patterns of some people? For instance a person may have 4 different women they may have dated and they may all be similar in height shape or weight?
Oh yeah....ps...I wasn't saying that women would have sex with men just based on appearance alone, what I should say is, that his chances are increased by the what she sees and his chances either go up or down from the first time he opens his mouth.
Hmmm....sounds like someone needs to channel Samatha from Sex and the City and find out if what I am saying is true!
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