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04-19-2008, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Close the door and move on.
Doors aren't meant to be ajar. They are either open or closed. Just that simple.
Don't feel obligated to be his friend, either. You don't have to hate him but never settle for consolation prizes, especially if you're hoping and praying for more. Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever.
Don't take this to mean that you have to move on with another man. Give yourself time to heal or whatever. For now, move on with your life and yourself. And also don't feel obligated to go back through that door after you've closed it--if the guy comes back and you're no longer interested, that's that.
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04-19-2008, 04:53 PM
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Move on. It's very wrong of him to string you along. That's exactly what he's doing.
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04-19-2008, 06:14 PM
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If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, it was meant to be.
I didn't mean that to rhyme, and I'm sure it's not original...but it get's the point across.
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04-21-2008, 02:18 AM
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He's playing you...hoping you'll agree to hang out just long enough for him to get a little somethin'. Men don't do the "Now's not a good time for me, I'm going through some personal issues, maybe later," blah blah blah stuff that women like to use as excuses. If a man really likes a woman, he will pursue her, no matter what he's going through at the time. Move on - you can do better, and I bet you'll feel great about it!
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04-21-2008, 09:43 AM
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Tell him to leave you alone and when you get a new boyfriend and he gets a new girlfriend, then you can be "friends" if it's so important to him.
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04-21-2008, 08:42 PM
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I don't play that friends crap. EFF that. If I did not marry him, we are acquaintances that used to have fun together a long time ago. Leave the past in the past and Keep It Moving...
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04-21-2008, 09:04 PM
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He's trying to keep you on ice, is what it is. Basically, he doesn't want to date you, but if it's a bit of time until he finds the next girl, he wants to be able to have you whenever he wants. Don't do it.
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04-22-2008, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
I don't play that friends crap. EFF that.
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