DARK/LIGHT...SKIN COLOR.........Is this still an issue? Let's be honest Sorors & SF'

5Knowledge1913 · #1 03-31-2008, 08:19 PM

I do not dislike dark-skinned people, but I don't want daqrk-skinned kids. Simply being honest.

Blacksocialite · #2 03-31-2008, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by 5Knowledge1913

I do not dislike dark-skinned people, but I don't want daqrk-skinned kids. Simply being honest.

Wow...

DSTCHAOS · #3 03-31-2008, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 5Knowledge1913

I do not dislike dark-skinned people, but I don't want daqrk-skinned kids. Simply being honest.

Because it isn't enough to just pray for healthy kids?

Jill1228 · #4 03-31-2008, 11:25 PM

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Because it isn't enough to just pray for healthy kids?

or to even be blessed with one at all, especially if you desperately want one? Don't get me started

Nappy Bison, that is a great video. I feel you about the Black Barbies.
Last weekend, I was in Toronto for my godchild's baptism. As you can guess from the picture, she is biracial (mom is Black and dad is White). My friend (the mother) and I had a conversation about this very topic and dolls. It really peeves her when people (mostly in her mom's church) say, "she is so beautiful and look at that LIGHT skin." WTF? She wouldn't be pretty if she were medium or dark skinned like her mother?

In reference to the dolls:
The paternal grandmother of my godchild (who is Scottish) sent her a doll from England. (you can see the feet of the doll in the picture). The doll's name happened to be MULATTO. My friend and I were like, "Oh no she didn't!"

Part of us loved the fact that she did not up and get a White doll, but dude, did she have to get one named Mulatto?

NappyBison · #5 03-31-2008, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by 5Knowledge1913

I do not dislike dark-skinned people, but I don't want daqrk-skinned kids. Simply being honest.

Guess you can't be at fault for being honest

It's unfortunate to see that as a people, we've been conditioned to favor one complexion over another. I know when I was little I used to question complexion but not to the point where I wanted a white baby doll over a black one. To be honest, I got ticked off when I rarely saw a black Barbie on the shelf. Even when I did see one, the lighter complexion dolls always had cuter outfits with better colors

Why did the black Barbie always have to wear puke orange? Black Barbie could rock lavender, pink, fuscia, or baby blue too!

RedVelvet · #6 03-31-2008, 10:02 PM

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I do not dislike dark-skinned people, but I don't want daqrk-skinned kids. Simply being honest.

Seriously?

Dionysus · #7 03-31-2008, 10:15 PM

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Seriously?

Maybe she's scared they'll get hit by a car if they walk on asphalt roads. Who would see them?

5Knowledge1913 · #8 04-01-2008, 12:41 AM

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Seriously?

Serious as a heart attack!

rhoyaltempest · #9 04-01-2008, 02:21 PM

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Serious as a heart attack!

okay I was going to leave your original comment alone until I saw this which tells me that you are not ashamed of your twisted thoughts. Perhaps you're even proud of them.

Honesty or no honesty, this kind of thinking is not cute at all. Even if I thought like this, I would keep it to myself (while I tried to deal with and get rid of these thoughts) because I would be ashamed to admit to others that I let "Massa" get into my head and succeed at his "divide and conquer" tactics.

That's exactly what you've done. I just hope you never have the opportunity to bestow that kind of thinking on a beautiful dark child because it will only destroy their self-esteem.

As far as we've come on the journey to loving ourselves, anyone who feels this way without recognizing that it is wrong and without trying to do something (counseling maybe?) to work on themselves and get rid of these thoughts, chooses to feel that way.

Just my 22 cents.