Losing members

[ansturge]

i totally understand how you feel
my chapter is going to hell in a handbasket and its basically 2 people's fault. They were on a HUGE powertrip as eboard members and now they wont cut the damn cord!!

Everyone pretty much hates them -- cuz they've screwed so many people over. I just want to scream It's your fault no one wants to go to events, everyone hates you so just go away!! Thank God they graduate in May!!!!!!!! But i would never say that cuz i just cant be that openly mean. I'm very passive agressive cant you tell?

Our other problem is all of these anal retentive rules. The philosophy is well theres no bylaw for this issue so lets make a "standing rule" i mean what the hell is up with that. A rule that seems good now might be totally ruinous later. No one seems to realize the implications of the new rules they come up with.

no one wants to come to anything anymore. our last 4 MC classes were grossly missled. They were like what have i gotten myself into? I might lose one of my little sisters. And she turned down a bid to accept ours.

There is more political maneuvering in my sorority than there is in Washington DC!!

And i dont have a clue what to do about it. Ive tried for 2 years to fix things. But i couldnt do it alone. We talk about the problems but no one seems to really want to take the initiative to fix them.