NHPC sororities. How did you choose which to pleadge for?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by ....

First off no one can "sway" my decision. I WILL REPEAT THIS I WANTED TO KNOW HOW OTHER CHOSE WHICH SORORITY THEY WANTED TO BE IN.... I wanted to know about their journey before MIP how they came to the conclusion, I can care less which sorority they ended up joining, that isn't what I'm aiming for and I am not aiming for anyone to recruit me into their sorority. I chose "...." to be discreet. At first, I had no intention of posting. I read many threads ranging from the "warnings about MIP posts" to "starting your own sorority" before even deciding to post.
I have talked to many NPC sorors and first off I feel they have shown less dedication. I will not name any sororities, but one of them you basically pay to get into and then begin going to socials. There was no true work behind that. Even though I know pledging stopped, there is still much to be done during MIP and I feel that that will bond me to my sisters in a way that no other event would.
I don't feel that I am the first or only person to be in this position. I will also not be the last, that is why I felt a post would be more efficient because it would help people in "my position"
I am not trying to be rude or arrogant. I only know a small amount of infomation about greek org. that is why I am trying to obtain more information. If I had the infomation I needed, I would not be typing right now. And I don't care if my spelling is not completely correct here. The most important thing to me here is trying to show you my side of the story because it seems that many have forgotten that they were in "my position" before.
I have made no claims that I know "so much" about greek life or I would not be on this site. But, I am tired of being badgered for expressing my opinion. I have tried not to be rude to anyone, but I have been on the defensive since the second time I posted.

The NPC sororities do not call their sisters, "sorors"... You do not use the word "soror" unless you are a member of a sorority that does. I am NOT your sister! That is a style error I detest. Ignorance is no excuse...

Then are you saying that NPC sororities lack dedication to their organization? Who are you to accuse them of that? What have you done for their derby days, galas and philanthropies, etc.?

You bond by your actions. If you are out there in public standing up for what you think is right, then other organizations will seek your acceptance. But, as for NPHC sororities, that is NOT what we have to do. We do not have the need to do that. Why should I convince you to join us?

And the position you are in does not merit you asking any questions such as these because of your insolence. And you will continually be badgered whenever you post such silliness as you have before.