Is it still cheating?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

If you found out your significant other had pics of 'friends' in sexually explicit poses on their phone or PC, would you still say that they are cheating?

Even if they had never slept with them (and you buy it,) is it still a sign?

How would you hande it?

It's not necessarily cheating, but to me it's darn right disrespectful. If I found out that she has pictures of nude men or men in clothes, I would terminate the relationship immediately. There would be no compromise. I think it's very simple to have respect for your SO.

[Cardinal026]

I guess I'll be the odd man out. My fiance has a few acquaintances that are girls, and one in particular he hooked up with in the past, and she is a very sexual person. I knew about it then (we weren't together!) and since they have common friends, I don't mind him going out if she is there. I trust him.

I think she still finds him attractive, and can definitely picture an instance of her maybe getting drunk and sending pictures, and my fiance receiving them, and thinking the same thing, she's drunk, whatever, and forgetting about it, and that there were these pictures in his phone.

I'd probably be annoyed at the situation, and might keep a closer eye on her next time I see both of them. But unless I see him responding to something or him sending inappropriate pictures...I'll just know he didn't think it was a big deal and forgot about it.