Pregnant and in a sorority

[AOII Angel]

ZTAberry...of course this is all your decision, but we all hoped you'd see that ZTA is more than just your collegiate chapter and that it doesn't have to be your whole life to participate after you graduate (or go early alum.) Just because your chapter doesn't want it doesn't mean you shouldn't get your early alum status. It's your membership not theirs. But, if you don't want it, that's a completely different story. Don't blame us for trying...we just see the forest for the trees where you are currently looking directly at the leaves.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

Don't blame us for trying...we just see the forest for the trees where you are currently looking directly at the leaves.

HA! I like it.

[FSUZeta]

it is not up to the chapter to decide whether you take early alum, status or not-that is entirely your decision. it seems that you have decided not to pursue early alum. status. so be it.

[SthrnZeta]

Your collegiate EC doesn't always know everything and you don't really realize that until you're alum. They also don't speak for the National officers. Just because a few sisters may not agree with your decisions, doesn't mean they have the right to force you out of ZTA. And if you aren't willing to stand up to them to secure your place forever in our sisterhood, then it truly is your loss. We have all told you how easy it would be and how great it would be for you to go early alum rather than dropping your sisterhood altogether but you don't seem to be hearing any of us. You have many sisters on here who, let's face it, are wiser than you when it comes to these things and I just wish you would take our advice. Also, I am beginning to question your commitment attitudes in general: when you were initated into ZTA, it was forever. It seems, that being in a sorority was just a college activity for you, and that's sad because it's meant to last a lifetime.

AOII Angel, nice quote there. And so very true...