2nd round advise

[wssf0112]

Thanks guys. You have made me feel alot better. Thank you for all your support. Being from a family of no greeks, they just don't understand all of this and I know you all do bc you have lived it before. I will try and relax and think positive! I look foward to themes now. I will not look back.

[momofpnm]

I agree with everything that has been said, and the "mom" in me would like to add two things:

1. Try not to think about cuts. (Yes, easier said than done, especially after harsh cuts!) Instead, try to think of recruitment as getting to know girls. When you get to know people it's a give and take. Ask them about themselves when you feel stuck or awkward. People love to talk about themselves and it shows interest in them as individuals, not just as a "vote" in membership selection.

2. I think your chances are still good, but remember that Greek life is not the only way to be involved. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself. In college there are so many opportunities for leadership, service, and fun - Greek life is great but it is not the be-all and end-all of college social life. You will be fine EITHER WAY, so try to relax and keep smiling!