Before Informal Recruitment Question

[aephi alum]

Agreed - if it's informal recruitment, it should be ok to spend time with the sisters before IR starts. If doing so were a recruitment infraction, the sorority, not the PNM, is penalized.

[Sbm1213]

so if allowable should I get to know the girls as much as possible? or as many girls as possible from different sororities to get an idea which one I get along with best before recruitment?

[ForeverRoses]

If it is informal, then as others have said, you should be okay. I would actually encourage you to meet with these groups. For one, it would give you an idea of how you fit in with them in a more relaxed setting, and two it will let them know that you are really interested in them.

Going to lunch doesn't mean you have signed any type of exclusive agreement with them, so it shouldn't hurt your chances with other groups.