How much is too much?

PrettyBoy · #1 12-19-2007, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

^^^PB sweetheart, you never take a 1st date--a woman who you are considering seriously--to a high end restaurant.

I don't. I also wouldn't date a woman unless I want something serious from her. What's the point? I don't date just to be dating, nor do I casual date. I date "one" women, and I get serious with "one" woman, so why would I take her to a high end place if I don't even know her? For all I know she could be a low down woman who uses nice guys and commits herself to low down, thuggish, spinelss K Fed, 50 cent looking jokers. Bad boys like these idiots damn sure aren't going to take her anywhere except to the bedroom, and that's it. Women that fool around with these sorry, poor excuses for men, suck and aren't worth my time.

Fellas, be very leery about where you take your dates. There are other things worth your time you could have spent that cash on.

AlphaFrog · #2 12-19-2007, 09:06 AM

PB - when you die a lonely, bitter old man, we can all look back on these threads and not have to wonder why.

DaemonSeid · #3 12-19-2007, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

PB - when you die a lonely, bitter old man, we can all look back on these threads and not have to wonder why.

AF...actually altho it may sound bitter...he has a point...some of us have been in the same situation.

You take someone out to someplace really nice and....poof...that's it....

I can't recall how many 'great first dates' I had and later on felt it to be a waste.

So yeah...sometimes...we get a little leery about where we want to take some of you and it becomes a gamble...hehehe.

And believe me, it's not about trying to get physical, but it's about trying to make an investment and after a while you get tired of 'trying to impress' or trying to go all out for someone that doesn't show any appreciatation for it. (and again we aren't referring to sex!)

AlphaFrog · #4 12-19-2007, 09:41 AM

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AF...actually altho it may sound bitter...he has a point...some of us have been in the same situation.

Oh, I'm not just talking in reference to this thread...he's got a list longer than The Mitchell Report of things a woman can't have/do/look like.

DaemonSeid · #5 12-19-2007, 09:48 AM

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Oh, I'm not just talking in reference to this thread...he's got a list longer than The Mitchell Report of things a woman can't have/do/look like.

Does 'hoe' appear in it 82 times within the first 10 pages?

AlphaFrog · #6 12-19-2007, 09:49 AM

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Does 'hoe' appear in it 82 times within the first 10 pages?

Absolutely. And the only word that appears more frequently than "hoe" is "joker".

DaemonSeid · #7 12-19-2007, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Absolutely. And the only word that appears more frequently than "hoe" is "joker".

Well....as it was told to me...when you keep thinking of women in that frame of reference, that's all you will attact.

PrettyBoy · #8 12-19-2007, 09:11 PM

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Absolutely. And the only word that appears more frequently than "hoe" is "joker".

LMAO!

When I use the word hoe, I'm referring to my exes and women who like to sleep around and not commit to one man. "Joker" is just a bad habit. AF, you're supposed to be helping me with that.

catiebug · #9 12-19-2007, 02:00 PM

A "hoe" for a "rake"???

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

Does 'hoe' appear in it 82 times within the first 10 pages?

PrettyBoy · #10 12-19-2007, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

And believe me, it's not about trying to get physical, but it's about trying to make an investment and after a while you get tired of 'trying to impress' or trying to go all out for someone that doesn't show any appreciatation for it. (and again we aren't referring to sex!)

Exactly.

PrettyBoy · #11 12-19-2007, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

PB - when you die a lonely, bitter old man, we can all look back on these threads and not have to wonder why.

I'm not lonely, but I may be in the future, who knows? Hopefully I won't be. One thing I do know, is I would rather be lonely than to be with someone I'm not happy with.

AKA_Monet · #12 12-19-2007, 08:24 PM

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I don't. I also wouldn't date a woman unless I want something serious from her. What's the point? I don't date just to be dating, nor do I casual date. I date "one" women, and I get serious with "one" woman, so why would I take her to a high end place if I don't even know her? For all I know she could be a low down woman who uses nice guys and commits herself to low down, thuggish, spinelss K Fed, 50 cent looking jokers. Bad boys like these idiots damn sure aren't going to take her anywhere except to the bedroom, and that's it. Women that fool around with these sorry, poor excuses for men, suck and aren't worth my time.

Fellas, be very leery about where you take your dates. There are other things worth your time you could have spent that cash on.

Sweetie, we know you ain't one of those thuggish brothas that like to take a girl around the whirl... But, really, you don't know a woman without taking her out in some fashion--not to a high end restaurant, but to Burger King for lunch or something...

Some women's self esteems are so low and they need a rough neck thug to abuse them...

Then, some of these low self esteemed women regain their strength and decide that being with the nice guys are worthy of their hard efforts...

Then, there are some women who know a treasure when they see it...

I don't know what part of the "cycle" these women you are encountering are in, but it seems like they reside in the first one.

PrettyBoy · #13 12-19-2007, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Sweetie, we know you ain't one of those thuggish brothas that like to take a girl around the whirl... But, really, you don't know a woman without taking her out in some fashion--not to a high end restaurant, but to Burger King for lunch or something...

Some women's self esteems are so low and they need a rough neck thug to abuse them...

Then, some of these low self esteemed women regain their strength and decide that being with the nice guys are worthy of their hard efforts...

Then, there are some women who know a treasure when they see it...

I don't know what part of the "cycle" these women you are encountering are in, but it seems like they reside in the first one.

I don't hang out with women with low self esteem.

AKA_Monet · #14 12-19-2007, 09:14 PM

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I don't hang out with women with low self esteem.

Women's self esteem's fluctuate... Sometimes, it's high and sometimes it's low...

You date women of GOOD character--that is harder to detect. It is the same for men with less fluctuation.

PrettyBoy · #15 12-19-2007, 09:20 PM

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Women's self esteem's fluctuate... Sometimes, it's high and sometimes it's low...

You date women of GOOD character--that is harder to detect. It is the same for men with less fluctuation.

I treat all women with respect rather she's a woman of good character or a...y'all know what I want to say. See AF, I'm getting better.
Anyway, I treat the good ones and the bad ones with the same respect because she's someone's daughter and also could be someone's sister. I just won't take the bad ones out again. It's that simple.

We really need to get this thread back on track, because I think I hijacked this one.