Sorry to crash, well a month after the original post, but anyhow...I was a Sigma Nu sweetheart to my now husband's chapter and at their formal they presented me with a sweatshirt that had letters - black with white background and gold overlay. Underneath was stiched "sweetheart". I didn't even go to their school, but I guess I impressed the heck out of my husband's bros with my cooking, mad foreign language skills(

), sarcasm and bad jokes.
I have to say, I was very touched by the gesture.

My husband never let me wear his letters until he knew for sure (from what he says) that I was the "one". He came back from grand chapter and gave me a lavalier with your letters in it. Yeah, that's right my Sigma Nu is awesome.