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Originally Posted by mh*e
. . . my big's specifications for the gifts she wanted, and how she wanted her paddle made.
However, she was unhappy with them. She really hurt my feelings by yelling at me saying that she thought the gifts/paddle were "insulting" and "disrespectful." Then... she said she would "allow" me to buy her a "new set of gifts." I told her flat-out that it would not be happening. . . .
Also, she is officially dropping the sorority at the end of this semester.
What do you all think?
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#1: Since she's dropping the sorority at the end of the semester, the problem is pretty much going to be solved in a few weeks, right? Just maintain your dignity, steer clear of her as much as possible, and as others have said try for special bonding relationships with other members.
#2: Maybe I was brought up incorrectly, but I was under the impression that the proper response to a gift was "thank you." Even if you hate it. Specifying exactly what you want from someone makes it not really a gift, but more an obligation. Rejecting a gift and demanding something else is something I would think of as socially improper. But that's just me.
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