Go to the wedding, any parties, but I would seriously re-think the cabin thing unless it's gonna be a huge girly party and there is some way you can aviod her. If it's just gonna be the 4 of you, don't go....it will only cause problems.
But definately go to the wedding and the showers!!! Think of how upset you will be if you miss your friends wedding. AND how upset Missy will be that you're not there. I had a friend skip my wedding cause of someone who was going to be there (my maid of honor!). This person was a childhood friend of my husband and dated his brother, but when she found out Andrea was there (my MOH) she didn't come....cause she REALLY hates Andrea (cause my brother-in-law broke up with this girl to date Andrea).
I saw her the week after the wedding and she was really upset that she missed it. I was showing her the pics of everyone having a blast and she apolgized profusely for not coming!!!
So please, please, please go to the wedding!!!!!! It will make both you and the bride happier that you're there! Ignore this Jana chick and have a blast!!!!
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