quick question-transfer

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

chapters may accept transfer members wishing to affiliate at anytime-having pledged quota and being at or above total will not prevent the chapter from accepting the transferring member, however, many chapters like to have a "get acquainted" period to see if the member seeking to affiliate with them would be compatible with their membership.

I've always felt like this is crap. We don't expect alumnae to have a "get acquainted period" before joining an alum chapter, so why do we limit the rights of initiated members just because they weren't initiated at the chapter they are trying to join. Who cares if she isn't a great fit....she's a sister, and you should find a way to make a sister fit! Just my two cents.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

I've always felt like this is crap. We don't expect alumnae to have a "get acquainted period" before joining an alum chapter, so why do we limit the rights of initiated members just because they weren't initiated at the chapter they are trying to join. Who cares if she isn't a great fit....she's a sister, and you should find a way to make a sister fit! Just my two cents.

I tend to agree. Unless there's a standards issue or she wasn't fulfilling her obligations to her old chapter, I think it should be easy for girl to affiliate at a new chapter.

I understand that problems can arise when certain chapters are considered feeder chapters for more selective ones (girls choose to rush at one place with the intention of transferring after initiation). But if we're national or international groups, it seems lame to be anything other than fully welcoming to a sister who has been initiated into the group.

If we have wildly different standards for membership at one chapter versus another, how can we really regard ourselves as unified groups?

To the OP: I can't recommend letting your chances at affiliation guide your choice of schools, unless you are choosing between two academically equal schools and you are using affiliation chances as some sort of tiebreaker.

If that's the case, FSUZeta clarified that the group, in terms of NPC policy, can accept you even if they are over total and you ought to talk to your officers and get advice and then maybe start making contacts at the new chapter to see. They are the ones who will really get to decide how easy or hard it is for you to become a full, included member of their chapter.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

I've always felt like this is crap. We don't expect alumnae to have a "get acquainted period" before joining an alum chapter, so why do we limit the rights of initiated members just because they weren't initiated at the chapter they are trying to join. Who cares if she isn't a great fit....she's a sister, and you should find a way to make a sister fit! Just my two cents.

Yeah, I used to think that too, until I heard about the people who join a small chapter they have no intention of staying at, just so they can get in the large prominent chapter through the "back door." You're in effect screwing over TWO chapters, and if a sorority's had it happen a lot, I can understand why the "get acquainted" rules were put in place.

I think that the not fitting happens at alum chapters too, and I think that way too many times, rather than everyone working together, people either 1) drop out of being involved completely or 2) start a new chapter when it would be better to have one big strong one rather than a bunch of smaller ones. #2 drives me nuts, but it might just be something specific to my GLO.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Yeah, I used to think that too, until I heard about the people who join a small chapter they have no intention of staying at, just so they can get in the large prominent chapter through the "back door." You're in effect screwing over TWO chapters, and if a sorority's had it happen a lot, I can understand why the "get acquainted" rules were put in place.

I think that the not fitting happens at alum chapters too, and I think that way too many times, rather than everyone working together, people either 1) drop out of being involved completely or 2) start a new chapter when it would be better to have one big strong one rather than a bunch of smaller ones. #2 drives me nuts, but it might just be something specific to my GLO.

I do know this happens, but I think it is too rare to penalize sisters who should have all the rights and responsibilites afforded to every other sister. My campus was known as a feeder to LSU since we all know that recruitment can be hell. Phi Mu and Kappa Delta chapters at my school were frequently claimed to be victims of this activity, but after four years at this school, I cannot recall a single person that anyone could actually name who did this.

[BabyPiNK_FL]

In Phi Mu you can do this. You can become an alumnae, but if you go to a school that does have it reinstate yourself. There is a lot of paper work involved (to prove you're in good standing). My chapter doesn't get a lot of transfers. It's so sad, they'll come but they won't reaffiliate even though nationals states on the paper work that you should. This summer when I was a Pi Chi, a girl came up to me and said she wanted to reaffiliate with Phi Mu, I was SOOO excited, but I never got her name and I don't know what became of her...I gave her the president of our chapter's email but I couldn't tell her I was one too since it was so close to recruitment. So SAD , I would have made sure to stay in contact had I been allowed.

Originally Posted by guardgirl88

i'm just assuming that is what I am right now until i transfer to the school with my GLO, if i decide to.

Instead of assuming anything, maybe you should contact a representative of your sorority and get accurate and factual information.

[Benzgirl]

Originally Posted by OTW

Instead of assuming anything, maybe you should contact a representative of your sorority and get accurate and factual information.

That's the most intelligent thing I have heard all day

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by OTW

Instead of assuming anything, maybe you should contact a representative of your sorority and get accurate and factual information.

that's a good call!