Well, I'm back from Kappa Delta's party... it was a lot of fun, we just kinda sat and drank sparkling cider and watched a slide show... a lot of the girls came up to say hi to me, so i felt special... so i've signed my card and we'll see what happens... they're supposed to call us either way tonight to let us know if we matched or not... if we do match, we go to bid day tomorrow and find out which house (since i only put one house down, it would be easy to figure out if i do match)... so now i just wait... i'll be gone for this evening, so hopefully i won't come back to a sad message... thank you huys so much for all of your advice and good wishes