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Originally Posted by SydneyK
When the option of looking into COB was brought up, she really felt like she wouldn't want to be in a group if they didn't want her to begin with. .
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Just reiterating what FSU Zeta and DeltaBetaBay said. It's so difficult to adequately assess a PNM is the brief moment which they are in your chapter house. For example, if a PNM enters my chapter house during the first round, she only meets 2-3 of my sisters. She bases her opinion on the house on these 3 actives, while our entire chapter bases our opinion of the PNM on the opinion of the 3 actives. It's the most efficient system, but not necessarily the best. Both sides must use the best judgment and discretion in making decisions. That said, your daughter could find a wonderful home through COB- perhaps in a chapter she might otherwise not have considered once she meets more actives in that house.
Best of luck to her, whichever path she chooses to take.
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