from my personal experience, the parties are what get the kids interested. Its pretty simple. Most of them don't have any intention of being involved in philanthropy...or other things like that. they want to hang out and party. Which is fine and good. Its our job as good men (and women) to find those people who have hearts in the right place who haven't really thought about volunteering at a soup kitchen or raising money for a charity... to get out there and get involved, and to make good men better. Just like the Masons who won't allow a bad person to join them, they only take good upstanding people, and use their teachings to make them better... thats what we need to be doing.
Those people who come into my house looking soley to party, and get laid every night by a different girl... I'll give them a chance...its called pledgeship. But if they cant get it together and show me that they are men after my heart...then then can hit the road. thats for damn sure.
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