Deactivating and Letter to EO

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Ch2tf

Thanks for the explanation, that is what I thought. It just struck me as "excessive" (not knowing the situation behind the OP's deactivation) to leave your org entirely when your problem/issue is with a specific "chapter" or member(s).

Honestly, I think part of it is that there are girls who just want the letters by their names and will then try to duck out of responsibilities but keep the letters. Also, for NPC sororities, while it is a lifelong commitment, there's a reason the collegiates are called "Actives." That is where your primary benefits will be gained and that's where you do the bulk of contributing to your sorority. Only a percentage of alumnae are active so if you reduce the number of collegiate members, you reduce the number of active alumnae.

That said, sometimes situations can be worked out. Sometimes.

[Rudey]

It's not a job. It's an org that years down the line very few people will care about. On top of that they don't have the time and resources to scour the country and make sure you're unemployed.

Burn that bridge. Burn it good. Get all your feelings out so you don't feel like you left anything unsaid.

-Rudey