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One of my pledges had a similar problem with her boyfriend. He didn't like her doing anything that excluded him. She wound up depledging three days before initiation in order to make him happy. It was weird because when he pledged his fraternity, she was very supportive of him. The next semester she regretted her decision and wanted to be a sister. We told her that her bid was still valid, and she could pledge again. She decided not to. They wound up breaking up. I always thought that it was so sad that she quit something that had been important to her because of her boyfriend.
I suggest that you share with your husband how important your sorority is to you. A couple of hours a week isn't so much time that it will impact your relationship unless he decides to make it an issue. I hope that you don't let this stop you from getting involved with your sorority. Maybe you can figure out a way to include your husband so he doesn't feel left out.
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