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Old 07-01-2007, 11:34 PM
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Hello everyone!

Sorry for the delay, I had to take a breather and run some errands. This discussion about Jewish sororities is really interesting. To this day, I don't know for certain whether or not I would have been allowed to pledge Soccer. They are a Nationally Jewish sorority, not just a chapter that happened to have many Jewish girls at Maryland.

Going Greek: Jewish College Fraternities in the United States, 1895-1945 is on my list of books to read (right after Bound by a Mighty Vow). I might find my answer in there. But it sure would be easier, for now, to hear from members of AEPhi, DPhiE, and SDT. Were any of them at one time "Jewish Only?" If so, when did it change?


Okay, so...the rest of my story. I'm having a tough time because I'm trying to pare it down. I could just tell you really quickly "blah blah blah, blah blah blah, THE END." The thing is, that's not the way it happened. More characters entered the story and A LOT more went on. I don't want this story to become a drag though. So what should I do? A quickie ending? Full story? Full story pared down as much as possible?

Let me know (you can PM me) and I'll get on with it.

Thanks for being interested!

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Old 07-01-2007, 11:47 PM
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My Mom has always told me that when she went through Rush in the 1960s at the University of Michigan, there were only 4 houses that 'took' Jews. 2 of them, I'm pretty sure were founded as non-sectarian (DPhiE and Phi Sig). The other 2 were definitely founded as 'Jewish' sororities (AEPhi and SDT). But she has always said that she never looked at the other houses because she was more comfortable where there were other Jews. I know they weren't discouraged from joining a house that didn't have Jews, but no one apparently did it. That and I think in 'mutual selection' both the 'non-Jewish' houses and the "Jewish" rushees would mutually drop each other. I think that Jewish girls were more attracted to houses where they felt like there were others 'like' them. Isn't that why we all joined our respective chapters in the first place? Someone in DPhiE confirm this--weren't at least some of your founders Jewish?

Contrast to when I rushed...when girls joined every NPC chapter on campus regardless of their religion. Yes, AEPhi did cater to more Jews (partially because so many of us were legacies because our Mothers/Grandmothers/etc. only joined "Jewish" houses) but they definitely took non-Jews too. I knew a girl who was a Lutheran who joined AEPhi the year we pledged. She was the only non-Jew in her pledge class. Didn't bother her one bit. I do know that some girls were a little turned off by the fact that AEPhi was 'so Jewish', but I also went to a school with a large Jewish population, so that was also probably a factor. I personally didn't join AEPhi, and joined a house that was pretty religiously mixed. There weren't that many Jews in my pledge class specifically, but I was far from the only one.

If memory serves me right, there was a time where some houses really didn't take Jews, and that had a lot to do with the Christian ideals that they were founded on. But someone PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong--aren't the NPC chapters all supposed to have non-discrimination policies nationally now?

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Old 07-01-2007, 11:56 PM
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If memory serves me right, there was a time where some houses really didn't take Jews, and that had a lot to do with the Christian ideals that they were founded on. But someone PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong--aren't the NPC chapters all supposed to have non-discrimination policies nationally now?
Wouldn't you know, the only Chi Omega that I know personally (IRL) is Jewish!
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Old 07-02-2007, 01:47 PM
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Wouldn't you know, the only Chi Omega that I know personally (IRL) is Jewish!
Chi O at IU had a ton of Jewish sisters when I was there. In fact, I think Chi O and AXiD had the most Jewish sisters after AEPhi and SDT!

My cousin is also a Jewish Chi O.
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Old 07-02-2007, 03:21 PM
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Chi O at IU had a ton of Jewish sisters when I was there. In fact, I think Chi O and AXiD had the most Jewish sisters after AEPhi and SDT!

My cousin is also a Jewish Chi O.
I think it's funny both of you mentioned Chi Os...when I made the comment about sororities founded on Christian ideals--that was the sorority I had in mind; since my sister is a Chi O (and we're Jewish; duh). I know her college didn't have many Jews (although there was a "Jewish" sorority). She was happy that she was able to make up her own mind. Me too. It would've been really weird to be so limited in my choices. My Mom said that there were a lot of girls she knew (her roommate included) who were Jewish who went bidless on Bid Day if they didn't really click with the girls (and vice versa of course, due to mutual selection).
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Old 07-02-2007, 03:43 PM
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I don't remember religion ever being an issue. We had a rush "workday" on Rosh Hashanah and I remember some girls being excused so that they could go to temple (workdays were non-rush days where we would prepare for the next round) and I remember being excused from a sisterhood on all saints day so that I could go to mass. I was never a big deal and I personally think there would have been a riot if someone had brought it up as a reason during membership selection.
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Old 07-02-2007, 05:54 PM
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The Second Time Around

Over the year, my perception of some of the sororities had changed a bit; Croquet wasn’t as intimidating as I had thought, Football was really a great group of girls, and not all the Sunbathers were blonde and bubbly. I wasn’t very interested though. I had only one purpose in mind; to re-pledge Water Skiing.

I had made some very close friends with the girls on my hall during my freshman year. None of them were in sororities. They all saw how much I loved being in a sorority so by sophomore year many of them wanted to Rush. There was:

“Mother Hen Maureen” who was everyone’s best friend and my roommate. I thought she’d fit in well in Football or even Soccer.

“Giggling Jill” who I thought was a shoe-in for Ice Skating.

“Gentle Jeannine” could fit in at any number of sororities.

“Vampy Viola” was puzzling. I had no idea where to place her.

There was also a close friend of mine who didn’t live on the hall,
“Goofy Gail.” I was hoping that she would pledge Water Skiing, but I could see her in other sororities as well.

My pledge sisters from Water Skiing, “Irene” and “Becky” hadn’t made grades the second semester either. I begged them to go through Rush again but “Irene” wasn’t up for it and “Becky” was a junior, had started her own business and just wasn’t in a ‘pledging a sorority’ place. She adored Water Skiing and encouraged me to try to re-pledge. She said, “Become a Water Skiing sister for me.” I was so sad that she would never be my sister.

My other pledge sister, “Tabitha”, couldn’t understand why I’d want to re-pledge Water Skiing. She was “setting her sights higher.” (her words, not mine)

My best friend from home, Iris, was also going through Rush this year at UCLA.

So, once again, Rush began. I didn’t keep notes this time and I barely remember it. I knew the game by then and just flew on auto-pilot.
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Old 07-02-2007, 02:14 PM
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If memory serves me right, there was a time where some houses really didn't take Jews, and that had a lot to do with the Christian ideals that they were founded on. But someone PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong--aren't the NPC chapters all supposed to have non-discrimination policies nationally now?

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Yes and yes.

Some sororities could only take Christians, some Catholics, some Mormons. Let's face it, ADPi and Phi Mu were both founded at a Methodist College - I would imagine that their first 50 some years, they only took Methodists - although I don't know this as a fact. Now, every NPC sorority has a non-discrimination policy.
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Old 07-02-2007, 02:33 PM
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WOW I never saw that turn coming. I am so sorry that it didn't work out the first time around, but obviously there was a happy ending in there somewhere. I am loving reading this and can't wait to read more!
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Old 07-01-2007, 11:40 PM
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Full story; the ending of the novel can make the novel a good book!
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Old 07-01-2007, 11:48 PM
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I vote for the full story, but make it snappy sister!!
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