whats your relationship with your big/little?

[AnatraAmore]

I agree... out of my three lils, two of them I am very close with and the other I am still pretty close with. She jokingly calls herself my "neglected child." She was the most independent of the three and knew more sisters coming into pledging, than my other two. As a result, I spent less time hanging out with her one-on-one while she pledged. (Although we have spent lots of time together since then!)

One thing I have noticed that other sisters tended to adopt lils who really are neglected by their bigs. Sometimes the big sisters who aren't close with their lils are imitiating the relationship they had with their bigs, so if your big sister doesn't call you to hang out, call her! Maybe she's shy or feels awkward just calling you to hang out...