lil sis rush

[fishie]

Ouch. Lets leave the poor girl alone, I don't think she meant anything by it. Right?

But to answer the original post...bigs/lils of the opposite sex are generally frowned upon and somewhere in the manuals of IFC or NPC it may ban them. I looked for you, but couldn't find them...I may not have been looking in the right place though, who knows. Okay, so, they're "banned" but schools still have them. There just aren't any titles of "I'm a little sister of this particular fraternity." But technically, yes, they're banned.

Originally Posted by fishie

Ouch. Lets leave the poor girl alone, I don't think she meant anything by it. Right?

You're quick to defend the girl because you haven't seen the posts she's been leaving in the past 2 days. Just sayin'...

After being given information that little sister programs were a no-no, she still insisted on pressing the issue. I hardly qualify that as "not meaning anything by it."

[33girl]

Let's get one thing straight: AXiDlinds is not talking about a "little sister program" in the sense of a group that has organized rush, pledging and initiation. It's more of a "pick random people and do stuff for them so we can wear each other's letters." I don't think - at least she didn't mention - that everyone whose "big brother" is a Sigma Nu will have meetings or be any kind of cohesive unit.

I know they're both no good as far as NPC & IFC are concerned, but there IS a difference between the two.

[fishie]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I know they're both no good as far as NPC & IFC are concerned, but there IS a difference between the two.

I agree with that. An organized group is completely different than a random person here and there. I guess maybe it's more of a campus to campus thing where sometimes it's just "over-looked." Although I don't think she meant they can wear each other's letters. Maybe I missed that part. One of my guy friends at another university has a "big sis." He can't wear her letters or anything. They just write it on sweatshirts "so-and-so's lil bro" or whatever. They're still "not supposed to" but it happens. Whether it's right or wrong, should or should not be allowed isn't for me to say.