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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
Based on your last post on this thread alone it seems like you automatically associate a nice guy with a doormat like most women do. I say that because no one mentioned push over or doormat, but since bad boy was mentioned, you mentioned push over/doormat. I just took that as you meaning that to be the opposite of a bad boy.
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I think you read too much into that. I don't associate a nice guy with a doormat. What I mentioned was just my personal experience that I was adding to the conversation. This man in particular was a doormat because he made it a point to never argue with me. He abandoned every single belief, moral, want, and wish so that he could always agree with me (thinking that was what I wanted) and that got on my last nerve. I don't think the opposite of a bad boy is a doormat, not at all. The opposite of a bad boy is a good man. I just don't want a man to worry so much about being nice and respectful to me, that he stops respecting himself, as has been my experience. And I wasn't trying him that day--I was so tired of having a jellyfish for a companion, that I totally blew up at him. It wasn't a test, we were just having a fight, nothing more.
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Originally Posted by Trey_P-I_47
And yes ladies, we know there are a several of the more classy and sophisticated types out there, but for some reason we just have a hard time finding you, and apparently you finding us.
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That's it. That's exactly it. Good women want good men and Good men want good women. WHY CAN'T THE TWO FIND EACH OTHER? People don't usually think, "I want someone intelligent, so I go scope out the library." Or I want someone who cares about her community, so I'll look for women at my next service project. " When people are actively seeking a partner, they often look while their out at the club or some other social place. However, these are the places where everyone is in "player mode." Maybe it's all about location.
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