Cheating Men

PrettyBoy · #1 05-27-2007, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Live_Wire17

Some men don't need an excuse to cheat...they just do it.

Yup, you're right, but 9 times out of 10 she'll still stay with him if he does.

delph998 · #2 05-27-2007, 09:06 AM

That's the unfortunate part. God made us to be emotional, forgiving beings. So we're more willing to compromise or work it out.

BUT...

Let us cheat on our man! Oh my goodness, there will be hell to pay.

cheerfulgreek · #3 05-27-2007, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998

That's the unfortunate part. God made us to be emotional, forgiving beings. So we're more willing to compromise.

BUT...

Let us cheat on our man! Oh my goodness, there will be hell to pay.

lol

I agree. I used to keep taking my X back after his cheating ways, but I wouldn't do that now. I would just move on. It would be hard but I think I could do it.

Live_Wire17 · #4 05-28-2007, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Yup, you're right, but 9 times out of 10 she'll still stay with him if he does.

You are so right and that's the sad part.

akaladyppd · #5 07-30-2007, 07:35 AM

Speaking on behalf of my soror, who I will not name...RIP. Her fiance' cheating on her while they were dating. He dropped his side lover when they got engaged. The side lover got mad and killed my soror........so is it really worth it? People are crazy you just go around cheating on people. They snap...Think before you do. It's not always that easy. You reap what you sow. It'll come back to you 10x. And why would you want to cheat on someone you love?

PrettyBoy · #6 07-30-2007, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by akaladyppd

Speaking on behalf of my soror, who I will not name...RIP. Her fiance' cheating on her while they were dating. He dropped his side lover when they got engaged. The side lover got mad and killed my soror........so is it really worth it? People are crazy you just go around cheating on people. They snap...Think before you do. It's not always that easy. You reap what you sow. It'll come back to you 10x. And why would you want to cheat on someone you love?

Sorry to hear about your soror. Yes, you don't know how right you are. A lot of people think the grass is greener on the other side. What people fail to realize is if they spend more time fertilizing and taking care of their own grass the other side won't look so green. Today, I was watching Dr. Phil and this man was cheating on his wife with several different women, but yet he was already having problems in his marriage. I said to myself "Dude if you're not happy with your wife, what makes you think another woman is going to make you any happier? Work on fixing what you have before you leave and explore something new." You're right though, all it does is cause problems. Yeah, and how can a joker cheat on someone he/she loves? Or better yet, just don't cheat at all.

KAPPAtivating · #7 07-30-2007, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Sorry to hear about your soror. Yes, you don't know how right you are. A lot of people think the grass is greener on the other side. What people fail to realize is if they spend more time fertilizing and taking care of their own grass the other side won't look so green. Today, I was watching Dr. Phil and this man was cheating on his wife with several different women, but yet he was already having problems in his marriage. I said to myself "Dude if you're not happy with your wife, what makes you think another woman is going to make you any happier? Work on fixing what you have before you leave and explore something new." You're right though, all it does is cause problems. Yeah, and how can a joker cheat on someone he/she loves? Or better yet, just don't cheat at all.

Usually I find that when a person cheats, it's often due to some type of deficiency they have themselves and they look to fill it with someone else.

delph998 · #8 08-01-2007, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Sorry to hear about your soror. Yes, you don't know how right you are. A lot of people think the grass is greener on the other side. What people fail to realize is if they spend more time fertilizing and taking care of their own grass the other side won't look so green. Today, I was watching Dr. Phil and this man was cheating on his wife with several different women, but yet he was already having problems in his marriage. I said to myself "Dude if you're not happy with your wife, what makes you think another woman is going to make you any happier? Work on fixing what you have before you leave and explore something new." You're right though, all it does is cause problems. Yeah, and how can a joker cheat on someone he/she loves? Or better yet, just don't cheat at all.

Very well said, PB. And while that sounds so logical to you, me and others, other people don't grasp that concept. That's just the way it is unfortunately.