Originally Posted by PKTSU01
Got your attention? Good...
This thought has been reoccuring for weeks now, more so in the past week where....I've had a girl I know become pregnant by a guy who "loves" her, although he seems to forget where she now lives...and...had a fraternity brother cheated on by his g/f twice in the last 3 months, and just found out about both. He's the nicest guy anyone will ever meet, and got completeley fucked with emotionally and mentally, he's a damn wreck.
We've all discussed this on this site before, to some extent. Normally, when ladies make no sense to us gentlemen, the ladies of GC clarify answer our inquiry of "why are girls so stupid sometimes?" with "oh, she just has bad judgment" or" she's not worth the effort." I tried to give it all the benefit of the doubt, assuming that it was just bad luck that my buds have been running across these "poor judgment" girls. Then I realized....an overwhelming MAJORITY of women I've met are..in no particular order...
indecisive, overemotional, illogical, in condensed terms...
totally free of rational thought, especially when it invloves admitting to themselves that they actually a) love someone or b) have someone that loves them. Love seems to be what women search for, the whole knight in shining armor deal. Then, when he comes along, he's not asshole enough to spark her interest. No thrill of the hunt, no challenge, she's not interested. Leaving the nice guy alone wondering where he went wrong.
The overall question here is this, posed by a comment my friend Kirsten made "If a guy wants a girl, he has to be a dick, make it seem like he doesn't care, THEN he has to be nice, cause that's what a girl really wants."
Is this the extent of it ladies? No point in being nice till after we've acted out and played the little game of hard to get?
Now, I've seen this, played this game, gotten the girl before, but when I sit and actually think about it, and if this is the truth, there is absolutley VERY LITTLE reason to try and be a gentleman, seeing as the majority of women will ignore that and think you a loser for being nice. Does that make ANY sense?
For some reason, as discussed in a previous post, this mindframe seems to dissapate after a woman nears or hits 30. So, is that it? Don't try to make sense of a woman who won't make sense until she's 30?
Of course, these generalizations don't speak for everyone but, it seems to be way more than just coincidental.
Again, I'll clarify, NOT all women, there are some sweeties out there, not all hope is lost, but quite a few, especially in the age range of 20-25,26. I know it might be just a maturity issue, but, it would be interesting to hear different takes on this.
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