Actives Need to Clean Up Facebook, Too

[UGAalum94]

I haven't talked to anyone about Ocalagirl, but wouldn't finding out her real identity, the school she is attending, and then sending out no recs seems a bit extreme just because you didn't like her GC comments?

Certainly, I don't think everyone makes her decisions like I do, but just as I wouldn't recommend someone I knew only online with no connection in real life, I wouldn't No-Rec one either.

[Ocalagirl]

Whatever I give up. I guess I will take everything off of my thread from last year so no one else can read my supposed life story. I don't think people could figure out who I am but whatever. If women send in a no-rec, then I am sorry you do not like because you never gave me a chance. I am not writing anymore on this thread because it is getting ridiculous.

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

I haven't talked to anyone about Ocalagirl, but wouldn't finding out her real identity, the school she is attending, and then sending out no recs seems a bit extreme just because you didn't like her GC comments?

It's not just a matter of not liking her comments. It wasn't as if GC woke up one morning and decided to pick on her. She was rude to several GCers who offered her words of advice.

While it does sound extreme, I think it's a member's prerogative to let the collegiate chapter know that she does not recommend this woman for membership and I don't think anyone here should have the right to question that.

[Beachbrat]

but before taking things to open forum, keep in mind that once it is out there, others may be hurt, embarrased, not see the things the same way, or hold you accountable.