Big Sister/Little Sister

Originally Posted by adpiucf

Hope this helps. If you are interested in going through sorority recruitment, remember to clean up any online profiles and to not show what could be taken as preference for any one particular sorority on those profiles. Keep an open mind!

Great advice as usual...but I think it's safe to say that the Tri Sigmas (the sorority she was really interested in) as well as the Alpha Phis are very well aware of her identity. That being said, I'll be blunt and say her chances of getting a bid to an NPC sorority are slim to none.

[epchick]

Originally Posted by OTW

Great advice as usual...but I think it's safe to say that the Tri Sigmas (the sorority she was really interested in) as well as the Alpha Phis are very well aware of her identity. That being said, I'll be blunt and say her chances of getting a bid to an NPC sorority are slim to none.

Yep....let's just say that my chapter sisters have become FULLY aware of the situation now. I think her chances of becoming one of my chapter sisters is about 1%.

[CSUGreekGoddess]

I just wanna provide my side of the story so everyone can understand me. I'm sorry if what I did on my MySpace profile was disrespectful or offensive to anybody even though I didn't know, but that being said, I am still interested in joining a sorority and I'm not here to try to expose anything. When my blog was posted, to tell you the truth, that wasn't the whole story. So I hope that you can understand me because I'm not the kind of person to expose anything and I don't do that. I'm just here for the facts of what to expect if I wanna join a sorority, not to expose anything.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by CSUGreekGoddess

I'm sorry if what I did on my MySpace profile was disrespectful or offensive to anybody even though I didn't know

How could you NOT know that claiming to be a "future" member to an exclusive org without having actually been invited is wrong?

[CSUGreekGoddess]

Actually, I was saying that that was the sorority I was interested in joining and I wasn't a future member of it.

[Xylochick216]

I think saying, "FUTURE MEMBER OF SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA" pretty much says you thought you were a shoo-in.

[AlethiaSi]

ahahahahahaha

ok first of all, i can understand that you didn't know what you were doing was wrong/ frowned upon.... however, it just seems like common sense.
I'm in a local and if some girl was running around doing those things, that would get a veto from my house too.
It's called discretion. you should try it.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by CSUGreekGoddess

Actually, I was saying that that was the sorority I was interested in joining and I wasn't a future member of it.

It didn't say "Interested in Sigma Sigma Sigma!" That implies that you want to join.

It said "Future Sigma Sigma Sigma sister". That implies that you know you're going to be asked to join.

Big difference.

And to those who will jump on my case & say, "oh no big deal", PM me because honestly there is more to this than most of you know (I'm trying to be nice and not put it all out there). It's not just about an ultra-creepy Myspace.

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