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Old 05-11-2007, 05:25 PM
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Oh I completely agree that she isn't comfortable with herself, it was the "I'm Glad someone so screwed up isn't in my sorority" comments that made me post. I'd rather see all of our organizations working towards lifting women up, not breaking them down.
I said it before and I'll say it again. I'm glad that someone with such screwed up thinking DID NOT become a member of my Sorority.

D9 Sororities are ALWAYS working within the community with young woman and girls to ensure that they are molded and have a better understanding of their own self-worth. However, we cannot undo all the nonsese that may be ingrained in a person's mind after YEARS of denying their own heritage. I don't know anyone's personal circumstances, nor do I care to. But just like you take offense to my comments, I take offense to hers. To make statements like "I'm not 'Black' enough to be a member of the XYZ Sorority" is ridiculous. You see no one with all these wild accusations has been back to explain what they mean. How can a white chick be "Black enough" to join a D9 Sorority, but a chick that is HALF Black isn't? That goes to show that she has no clue about her Black heritage, nor has she taken the time to find out.

I would much rather someone just say they didn't find the right "fit" when it came to NPHC or NPC Sororities instead of saying they aren't "Black" or "White" enough to make it in. You can choose not to be offended, but I am.
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Old 05-11-2007, 08:26 PM
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i met this older rho at the grocery store one time....and we chatted it up about our greek affiliation and i asked about the dade county nphc

her response:

"oh.....the nphc is only for black fraternities and sororities."

that hurt.

a lot.







LOLOLOL
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Old 05-11-2007, 08:53 PM
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i met this older rho at the grocery store one time....and we chatted it up about our greek affiliation and i asked about the dade county nphc

her response:

"oh.....the nphc is only for black fraternities and sororities."

that hurt.

a lot.



LOLOLOL
LOL!

She didn't know that Iota Phi Theta was a BGLO that's in the NPHC. She's not the only one.
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Old 05-11-2007, 08:56 PM
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She didn't know that Iota Phi Theta was a BGLO that's in the NPHC.
lol, well i kinda figured and was expecting that.....but to have it put THAT way, that was hella unexpected
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Old 05-11-2007, 09:00 PM
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lol, well i kinda figured and was expecting that.....but to have it put THAT way, that was hella unexpected
LOL.

Now you know that has nothing to do with this topic, though.
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Old 05-11-2007, 09:26 PM
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i met this older rho at the grocery store one time....and we chatted it up about our greek affiliation and i asked about the dade county nphc

her response:

"oh.....the nphc is only for black fraternities and sororities."

that hurt.

a lot.


Considering the source of this post, I am in a serious state of schadenfreude.
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Old 05-11-2007, 09:32 PM
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Considering the source of this post, I am in a serious state of schadenfreude.



they feel like bags of sand

have you recieved your membership card, kweer?
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Old 05-11-2007, 09:51 PM
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[*starang/swivel posts some incoherent babble*]
This isn't Kazo, partner. Know your role and stay in your lane.

*puts Starang back on ignore, throws the yo, and K.I.M.*
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Old 05-11-2007, 10:09 PM
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This isn't Kazo, partner. Know your role and stay in your lane.

*puts Starang back on ignore, throws the yo, and K.I.M.*
stay in my lane?

LOLOLOL, the irony.

can you even throw that up, considering your membership hasn't even been verified by the kazo kappas?

from k-sweet to k-perp?
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Old 05-11-2007, 10:49 PM
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stay in my lane?

LOLOLOL, the irony.

can you even throw that up, considering your membership hasn't even been verified by the kazo kappas?

from k-sweet to k-perp?
If the Kazo Kappas need to verify my membership, they can contact the local and provincial leadership in the area I serve and/or the IHQ. And I trust if this was really an issue with them, they would've done that from Day One, if they haven't already. You're the only one I hear bringing this up her on GC and you're not even a Kappa. Take your foolishness back to Kazo.

We.Got.This.Thanks.

Like I said, STAY IN YOUR LANE!!!!
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Old 05-13-2007, 12:41 AM
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I seem to recall that there was an article in "Essence" magazine about white people in NPHC orgs. I remember reading it when I lived in Toronto, so it would have been circa 2001? I think it was a good article and perhaps worth digging for.
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