nphc and anxiety

[ejay286]

Originally Posted by Reds6

Please let us handle this. I could not even imagine explaining to someone about the process of pledging a NPC organization or really intelligently even speak on anything about them so I don't. So your lack of knowledge about the NPHC's process just adds to more confusion for others and carries an expectation for explanation which probably won't happen. We know our regulations and policies and we often times can sniff out a faker.

Excuse me soror, but I am a member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Incorporated so TRUST me I know full well how an NPHC intake process goes, and plus i am a neo so the rules and regulations are very fresh on my mind lol. This thread wasn't about the intake process which is why I said she wasn't violating any rules. This thread was about if she makes it (which is the type of attitude she should have because who submits thinking that they won't make it) would her disorder hinder her?

She of course is confused about the process and I attend a predominately white campus and I have experienced some of the same questions? How do i get a bid etc.....but that wasn't the actual question being asked.

Do I think she should be worried about more than just the probate show? Of course she should. But as a GDI alot of times that is all people see due to parties and the media (stomp the yard). My advice was that if she is to make it she will realize that there is alot of work to be done behind the scenes that she could have a very instrumental role in. Am I wrong or am I right?

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Excuse me soror

I thought you were a Que, not a Delta.

I know, I know--that's a whole 'nother thread. *going to the corner*

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Do I think she should be worried about more than just the probate show? Of course she should. But as a GDI alot of times that is all people see due to parties and the media (stomp the yard). My advice was that if she is to make it she will realize that there is alot of work to be done behind the scenes that she could have a very instrumental role in. Am I wrong or am I right?

You are wrong. Don't confuse Coming Out Shows with regular step shows. At a coming out show you are doing just that--coming out.

By the way many of us went to PWIs.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Excuse me soror, but I am a member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Incorporated so TRUST me I know full well how an NPHC intake process goes, and plus i am a neo so the rules and regulations are very fresh on my mind lol. This thread wasn't about the intake process which is why I said she wasn't violating any rules. This thread was about if she makes it (which is the type of attitude she should have because who submits thinking that they won't make it) would her disorder hinder her?

She of course is confused about the process and I attend a predominately white campus and I have experienced some of the same questions? How do i get a bid etc.....but that wasn't the actual question being asked.

Do I think she should be worried about more than just the probate show? Of course she should. But as a GDI alot of times that is all people see due to parties and the media (stomp the yard). My advice was that if she is to make it she will realize that there is alot of work to be done behind the scenes that she could have a very instrumental role in. Am I wrong or am I right?

Ejay, sit your Neo ass down, low man.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Reds6

Ejay, sit your Neo ass down, low man.

I just wanted to say that I like this post a lot.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I just wanted to say that I like this post a lot.

LOL

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by Reds6

Ejay, sit your Neo ass down, low man.

I support this post.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I support this post.

LOL! He's posting like the Sand isn't still between his toes.

[ejay286]

Haha trust me if anyone knows how to humble themselves as a neo its me, but pledging does not take away my right to an opinion, sorry if yall think otherwise.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Haha trust me if anyone knows how to humble themselves as a neo its me, but pledging does not take away my right to an opinion, sorry if yall think otherwise.

Is that what you gathered from their posts to you?

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

Who are you over there? The one with the pink donut in your avator? lol

No, that's not me.

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I thought you were a Que, not a Delta.

I know, I know--that's a whole 'nother thread. *going to the corner*

LG, this time I won't make you put your had on. j/k

But for real....I think you were reading my mind.

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I support this post.

Hey...I'm a neo too.

[L.O.C.K.]

yay for neos!!!

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I support this post.

LOL.

Ejay caught the bad rap and I think he's now on that other site.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

LOL.

Ejay caught the bad rap and I think he's now on that other site.

I just saw that. I came on here to make sure I had the right name. Interesting.

[ejay286]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I just saw that. I came on here to make sure I had the right name. Interesting.

lol no guys I am still around, actually I am staying at my sisters house (who is a 99 Delta) for the week and I have no connection to the outside world other than this computer. So I have been on the net alot lately and decided to check out pledgepark as well. So you guys havent run me off. I'm a neo remember so I have been talked to alot worse lately so this is nuthin lol.