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[Kevin]

Originally Posted by James

I doubt his intentions are truly malevolent. If they were he wouldn't be broadcasting them.

James, I think you're spot-on. While if it were my daughter, I'd be extremely concerned, these guy's actions and comments do not really raise too many flags which tell me he's an actual danger... more that the guy is a little bit desperate for some attention from someone of the opposite gender and has generally poor social skills (hence, the "roofie" jokes with a girl he wants to take to formal.

While trying to be funny, he's being scary. Being socially awkward is a fact of life for a lot of 18-20 year old men.

[cheerfulgreek]

TXMom I would just go by your 1st instinct. It's usually always right.

[TXMom]

alum- yes she did cancel! I'm glad she did!

James....my daughter is a sophomore, after this semester a Junior. And yes he had a crush, he wanted a relationship, seemed to REALLY like her, wanted her to meet parents etc. (she didn't want a relationship) And I think it could have been different if she had sisters going but she didn't. And yes I agree I think he was being inappropriate and didn't realize it but when you're talking about a young girl that had a past situation that was painful.....even inappropriate scares the sh*# out of you!

cheerfulgreek....yep I agree! Done deal!

Kevin...I think you're probably the closest as anyone to the real situation. What I think is extremely sad is that maybe he was trying to be funny and "cool" and pushed away an awesome girl that just likes to get to know all types of guys (whether jocks, preps, greeks, nerds or any) But the "roofie" put her over the edge!!!