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Makes you wonder
Ok...let me add another perspective.
Yes what he said was terrible...just terrible.
BUT THINGS TO CONSIDER...if it was a prearranged phone call (ie, as in a date) shouldn't her custodial parent have some obligation to make sure that the phone was on and she would answer (very much like if dad showed up to pick her up for a visit, shouldn't she be dressed and ready?). The fact that the phone was off seems more deliberate.
AND I have kids who have cell phones and at 11 or 12, they didn't really get HOW to do their voicemail.
I felt like the rant, while on his daughter's phone, was really directed at her mother, who probably would be the person who would hear the message first, especially if she had culpability in missing the date from the start.
What an ugly unfortunate mess. Both need co-parenting classes (for divorced parents) and that child needs a CASA volunteer.
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"Pam" Bäckström, DY '81, WSU, Dayton, OH - Bloomington, IN Phi Mu - Love.Honor.Truth - 1852 - Imagine.Believe.Achieve - 2013 - 161Years of Wonderful - Proud to be a member of the Macon Magnolias - Phi Mu + Alpha Delta Pi
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