AOII and members from other schools

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Originally Posted by NCGirl09

Hi.
This may be kind of a strange question. Anyway, I have a very close female friend who goes to one of the military academies, where they don't have greek life, but I feel she really represents the AOII ideals as well as any of the members of my chapter. Is there any way that I could get her involved in any level as a member of AOII?

Hi! Nice to see another AOII sister on GC. Make sure you swing over to our forum and introduce yourself!

AOII has done alumna initiation virtually since our Founding in 1897. Feel free to discuss this with your chapter adviser for more information.

Originally Posted by NCGirl09

I know that if you marry a man, he can know the secrets in some degree and not sure if this is true as well for friends of an organization. Thanks so much!

The only people entitled to know any sorority or fraternity secrets are those who are initiated members of said organization. Non-initiated husbands, wives, friends, family members, etc. should never be given ritual information. Yes, I know that guys won't be in sororities and girls won't be in (male) fraternities, but if you're not an initiated member it's not your business!