Ghetto Weddings, II

[tld221]

see here's my thing. i dont think dude is necessarily a bad dude. if anything, her crazy sprung desperate @ss is doing all the things men complain about and makes them leave.

i know i sholdbe more sympathetic, but come on! she really brought this on herself. you cant go from "just met" to "married and shacked up" in less than a year and expect things to be all gravy. its one big "i told you so" and i dont care if i come off as a know-it-all to her. i'm working off common sense, which always prevails over working off of love and emotion.

[aopirose]

Originally Posted by tld221

see here's my thing. i dont think dude is necessarily a bad dude. if anything, her crazy sprung desperate @ss is doing all the things men complain about and makes them leave.

i know i sholdbe more sympathetic, but come on! she really brought this on herself. you cant go from "just met" to "married and shacked up" in less than a year and expect things to be all gravy. its one big "i told you so" and i dont care if i come off as a know-it-all to her. i'm working off common sense, which always prevails over working off of love and emotion.

tld221, you are doing the what you need to do. You love your aunt and she needs your support. Part of supporting her is telling her the true truth as you and your mom have tried to do. This cancelation, postponement, reprieve is the best thing that could have happened to her. Let's hope that she comes to see this too. If she and the guy are supposed to be together, it is best to come to the union with full understanding and committment. There are a lot worse things in the world than being without a man.