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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap
You said that you're generally shy. Plenty of shy women join sororities, but they probably made a concerted effort to be more outgoing during formal recruitment. Unfortunately, PNMs who have stellar qualities but who aren't very outgoing/are overly quiet are often overlooked during formal recruitment. Try to brush up on your small talk skills if you think that this applies to you.
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I agree with everything else that was said as well but thought this needed extra pointing out.
I am a generally shy person until I warm up to people and am definitely shy in a room full of people who all know each other. I hated recruitment but I still managed to find a spot in a smaller house on the campus I pledged at.
Use this semester to get to know some of the women in the sororities on a one-on-one basis. It will make informal easier next year.
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